Sylven meets Ryder
Hey guys SylvenV here with a new special guest from Amsterdam! Let's talk about fetish and personal life in general. This time I had the honor to meet Ryder (@Rbbrdutchryder) sooo… let's begin!
Can you tell me more about your personal life, age, what’s ur job, partner.
I’m RbbrDutchRyder (Ryder for short), I’m 29 years old and have an amazing partner. For my daily life I work in healthcare, and in my spare time I love to go surfing! It’s that moment that I can fully relax. Besides sports, I love to hang out with friends and grab some food or drinks.
What kind of fetish(es) do you have?
My main fetish is most definitely Rubber! Besides rubber I’m into a lot. Like: Bondage, Master/Sub (I’m sub in case you’re wondering ;P) Sportswear, and sometimes Pup play. So as you can tell, I love to experiment. Try new stuff.
Your biggest fetish is rubber gear. Why is that?
I just LOVE the sight of rubber. It’s the being able to see everything and see nothing at the same time! Your fantasies can go crazy because you are not seeing all. The suspense of what’s underneath. And every touch gets intensified, because it’s a second skin.
How did you start with the rubber fetish because lots of young people have that fetish but it’s expensive to have a big collection at a younger age with not that much money.
It is very expensive indeed! I was so fortunate I found a suit on a secondhand website and the owner was very friendly. He allowed me to come to him and try the suit first. At that point in time, I had only seen rubber on the internet and didn’t know if I would love it or not. I thought I would. So I visited him and he explained a little and helped me out with trying. After that I was sold! The feeling, the intensity and the smell. I just loved it.
What is your advice for younger boys with a rubber fetish who are willing to start with the gear?
Go to a fetish shop and try, get advice and start small. Back then, in my mind all the fetish shops looked dark and somehow angry. But they are far from it! I only encountered helpful and lovely people. We all have started somewhere, so they do understand where you are coming from. Dare to ask questions, they are willing to help. And if you are not yet 100% sold on what’s for you, start small. Try something like a legging or a shirt or whatever gear you might like. Then you can experience it a little before you make the big decision to spend a lot of money.
Besides rubber you also like bondage and Master/Sub play. Can you tell me more about that last one?
Let me say, I’m no easy sub. Somebody who wants to dominate me, must put in a little effort. But when he succeeds to get me in that sub-space… Man, I will do anything. I think I like to be submissive because in my daily life I love to have control myself. So I think it’s some kind of escape for me in a way. When in a subspace I love to be restrained, not able to move and just be “used” as a toy of some sort. It’s hard to describe because you get in a flow. Just you and the master. One thing I know for sure. Trust is a MUST. If I don’t trust you fully, I can’t fully give myself. Because then I will be cautious, and I will not be able to get in the sub-space.
Does your partner have the same fetish as you? Or other kinks?
We share some of the kinks. He is into domination too, but he is less of the outfits and more just skin and jocks. But we leave room for each other to practice our own kink on some occasions. So there is a great balance that serves our needs.
You are popular on socials and post amazing pics; don’t you sometimes get negative reactions?
I can say I haven’t. But my account did get blocked once. So that’s the reason it’s a 2.0 account ;P I’m almost certain someone reported my Instagram and that was the reason it got blocked. A few months back a lot of pic’s of mine got banned. Also, because someone reported them. So, I set my profile to private for a few months. I just don’t get it. If you don’t like the pictures just don’t look. But it’s annoying when people just report something when they don’t like it. So, no negative reactions in my face, but reporting is some other negative reaction behind my back.
Do you have some of our MR. Riegillio products? I think PVC would fit you well!
Thanks! No PVC yet. I do have MR. Riegillio leather pants. I love that I can wear a little kink out in the open, without everybody looking. It is just a little fashion statement or something like that.
What would you like to see in the MR. Riegillio products collection?
I’m always pro more form fitting outfits. Like I said. So you can see the body, but still it’s a secret what’s underneath. Some skintight outfits would be perfect. But while we’re at it, I’d like it to be a little different then all the other shops already have.
Last but not least do you have any last positive words for the community.
Stay true to who you are! Be proud and dare to be a little different. There is nothing wrong with that. And most of all: respect each other’s opinion. Not everybody sees something in the same way, communicate and learn from each other. Kink is so much fun, let’s share it with each other.
Thank you Ryder for this talk! Good to know you better and let's grab a drink soon :D
Don’t forget to follow @Rbbrdutchryder & see you next month with a new guest about chastity